When did you have a paradigm shift?

What is a paradigm?

A paradigm is how you view something. What you value, what drives you, your standards, and your set of ideas.

Fundamental change to how I see the world.

Changing your paradigm opens up a new liveliness for personal and professional growth.

My paradigm makes me happy, does it motivate me, does it support/better/change align with my priorities (family, work, self-development, and partnership). Take action in something that I believe in. 

My paradigm shift came from being in a relationship that day by day. I was being broken down so that I didn’t believe in myself so that I felt I had no other option so that I thought what I have to say doesn’t matter so that I didn’t know who I was, what I liked, what I wanted.  Through my infidelities and me getting caught, I was able to free myself, start to review things from a different perspective. Learn/define and understand who I am and where I want to go. 

My paradigm shift is reinforced by me stepping out of my box. Working on self-discovery and my self care process. Having real people in my life that help me to see where I have fallen short and ask the tough questions, encourage what I’m doing well, to be a listening ear. 

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